05 November 2008

Yes, We can!

Yes, We can! – Democrat President-Elect Barack Obama

How can I not write anything for this historical moment? Barack Obama has won the American election. The win may mean many things to many people. For me, It’s a win for a hard-working Afro-American who struggled for his life and proved that there is nothing impossible. I was following every moment of the election result in TV and internet, staying awake late at night and when the final victory was announced, I was immensely glad. I knew there were millions of people who were out there in the world to share that happiest moment. …….The First Black President of United States of America.
Obama, a sign of change. Here is a video of his victory speech. I completely understand why people have tears in their eyes with happiness. This is surely a moment to be glad about!
Obama, We all love you!

28 October 2008

The Football Match I missed!

As a true supported of Club Brugge, I was supposed to go to watch the First Round of UEFA Cup game in Bern. It was against BSC Young Boys, a team from Bern. I had to cancel the plan at the last minute but the sensation of the match lasted quite last as it ended 2-2 at the last minutes. Glad that we won the home match against them and proceed to the Group phase.

Here is a short video of the game. I don’t know who took this video but we just discovered that my two best friends with whom I was supposed to go are there in the video if you look carefully at 25th second.
FCB OLE OLE!!!!!!!!!


11 September 2008

Reality Shows!

Watching TV sometimes can get on your nerves! I still remember when I used to watch a Nepali program just to criticize how ugly it was. I don’t know they still show that program “Hijo aajaka kuraa” literally “the talks of yesterday and today”. I hated that program but did watch it sometimes coz the next day I had to tell my friends how bad it was!

Here, the Belgian TVs are just crazy about the reality shows! Every channels has reality shows running! The Big brothers or Toast Kannibaal, Lost in Tokyo, Peking express or Temptation Island or Boer zoekt vrouw! (Farmer searches woman)

Ok, back to the point, I wanna talk about the “Celebrity Shock”. It’s a reality show at a Belgian TV (VTM) where popular Flemish celebrities go to different destinations to feel the different aspects of live. Well, they are supposed to feel the shocks. There are 4 duos who depart to 4 different destinations of the world.

Interestingly, a duo is actually now in Nepal. 48 years old Flemish actress and authoress Pascale Platel and 29 years old Flemish actor, also very popular as Simon van Wyck from TV series “Sara” are facing Shocks everyday in a sort of Buddhist monastery institution.

Well, Pascale and Gert are now in Nepal for Celebrety Shock. They are placed in a Buddhist monastery somewhere nearby Bouddhanath ( I reckon), in north east of KTM. They will be there separated from the outer world and will live like a monk and nun.

This is now the second episode on air and actually I’m watching it now and writing this.

I’m not against the reality shows. That’s something I’m very sure of. But the overload of commerciality’s in the program makes it so ugly that I just can’t stand it. Its not that I’m inspired to write about it coz they are now showing Nepal but the whole idea they create about the third world is so ridiculous.
And it doesn’t only go about the problems of a selected location. Its about the way how they show it at TV.

Like the reality show, “The Temptation Island” where 8 young couples were severely tested for their faith to each other. Of course, even though they knew there was always a camera watching them, they ended of being messy with each other’s partners and so! These sort of reality shows just make fun of the whole human life aspects...Love, sentiment and relationship. Moreover, people seem to like it. They think that it should be like this in reality and I guess some people do even try to live through the reality show!

Is it impact of materialism? The developed mentality? The independency? An answer seems to be deeper than we think!

Back to “Celebrity Shock” again! Ok, so there is a duo (Pascale and Gert) living in a Buddhist Monastery. They have to adopt the life of a Nun and Monk there, learn to meditate, eat in a mess, and sleep with 100s other people in the same small hall… of course, the shocks!

Ok, here are now my concerns; I don’t think it actually shows the real picture of Nepal. Im not saying that they should show the “real Nepal” but the nature of the program seems more suitable for a country where Buddhism has so many influences in life. How many Nepali do live like a monk where 88% of the people actually are Hindu and where Buddhism and Hinduism live together in a perfect harmony. A separation between these two religions in Nepal is very hard coz they are so much mixed up with each other. It pictures Nepal as a real Buddhist country but in fact it’s not fully true.

Our duo (Pascale and Gert) is having lot of of shocks there! The duos who signed up for a program chose to go to receive the shocks themselves. I thought that they would somehow be prepared to discover a new world, cultures, location and circumstances. But our duo isn't seem to be prepared. They miss their Belgium so much. I, obviously, understand that they miss home, (who doesn’t…) but the way they express it is so ridiculous. They say whatever they like just coz those monks don't understand Dutch. Why is it so difficult for you to take it as the way it is when you chose to go there yourself? You could have always lived in your “luxurious clean apartment” and wouldn’t have had a single word to complain about but now you have chosen to discover something new but not to impose your lifestyles there or not to make any stupid comment about it. It’s the way people live there, and they like it and they appreciate it regardless you like it or not. They didn’t ask you to come there so you can’t play the boss! Why don’t you care that there is camera filming you and whatever you say for anything will be shown to millions of people later.

You are not at your home, you at least have to realise that. Our Simon (Gert) desperately misses his cigarettes. I don’t smoke so I don’t know how bad it is to be away from cigarettes but our Simon’s comments were just too funny! He has to sleep with other children at same hall and what he says when he wakes up the next morning is something to smile but not to appreciate!!!

Other duos are in Mumbai India, Greenland, Guyana and their stories aren’t less interesting too.

I’m personally not against the reality shows filmed in third world. They can be interesting as it gives you a chance to discover and see a different world. Adventurous shows let you test your horizons and talents too. “Expeditie Robinson” can be a good example of that where people are tested with nature.

To be precise, I’m against the makers of those reality shows which laughs at and contempt the culture, human who live there in particular way and their traditions. Dear western program makers, it’s not bad what they do there, it just different than the way you are used to. Just because you learnt to eat with fork and knife doesn’t mean that eating with hands is bad. People who eat with hand aren’t doing anything wrong but they are just doing it differently than you are used to. I know it’s a very simple example to prove a big theory but sometimes things can be so simple as long as you can have a look it from their eyes. If you can laugh about their styles they can laugh about yours too. It’s not about civilization. You can’t just pop up into a culture and say “they are not civilized”. And I don’t think Civilization has anything to do with Modernism or Scientification.

Well, this is the world we live in these days where the night life of Paris Hilton or Britney Spears is more important than the dying people in Iraq. It doesn’t become a news when people have nothing to eat in Africa but we spend hours watching how to be slim.

I know complaining isn't a solution...

Peace,
Raj

04 September 2008

Back to Busy Belgium!

I'm now back to Belgium after a wonderful trip to Slovenia and Italy. It was a long journey from Venice to Gent. I had to use all the modes of transportation to travel today... Boat, Bus, Plane, Train and Tram!!! It was really nice to meet some great couch surfers and travellers in Slovenia. Climbing the holist and the highest mountain in Slovenia, Triglav, was also another interesting part of the journey.
I will surely upload photos soon.

I can’t wait to start another journey again. Who knows... Prague, Copenhagen, Valencia, Vetlanda or even USA! There are obviously options enough!
See ya all!

12 August 2008

Following Slovenian Trail

Next week Monday starts my Slovenian journey. Its gonna be a long 10 hrs drive to Ljubljana from Gent and most likely I’ll be deadly tired. The last weekend job before the holiday finally begins doesn’t seem less challenging either.
Anyway, Slovenia……..here I come!!!

Here is the basic plan of the journey from 18th August till 3rd September:

18th.......... Drive to Ljubljana
19th- 21st.... Ljubljana
22nd-23rd..... Novo-Mesto and river Kolpa area
24th-26th..... The eastern areas (Maribor, Putj)
27th-29th..... Triglav National park
30th-31st..... Ljubljana
1st -2nd...... Venice (Italy)
3rd........... Fly back to Belgium from Venice Treviso



The first part of the journey would be wandering around Ljubljana. I’m still searching a couch in Ljubljana but I haven’t been so lucky enough yet to find a host for me. Its coz I have been really busy lately and don’t have time enough to write CS requests. But I do have a host in Novo Mesto. During the Park visit, I will be staying at the park’s little huts!
Rest of the accommodation plan is still needed to be updated.

Hehe, if you have a couch free in Slovenia, Plssssssssssss do let me know! I Promise im gonna be a good guest!

There is a reason why I chose Slovenia for my east European trip. Well, Paulo Coelho, obviously! His book “Veronica decides to die” tells about a Slovenian girl. I, as an amateur translator of his books, thought it very necessary to visit Ljubljana before even I think to translate that book. His books have impressed my life in a deep way and I really hope to translate few other books after Alchemist.

Except this, rest is all back to normal! Summer is absolutely at its full speed and I’m doing my best to cope with it. I had a very busy and Gentse Feesten and had few days spent in Paris too. I guess I needed that peace from Paris to clam myself after those wild festival nights!

The blog was supposed to be updated frequently but it hasn’t been so. It has rarely become a blog to post my poems every now and then.

Anyway, life has its own turns and I just had to accept it. There were days when I would have liked to share many things about me but lately it has become more personal things and the blog hasn’t been as it was supposed to be. I hope my readers (if there are any ;-) ) weren’t disappointed for that.
To mention, Archana Khadka, a special friend of mine is flying to US on the same day I’m beginning my journey. She will be studying micro-biology for few years. I’ve been telling her the stories of studying abroad and hope she will have a fantastic time over there. I will keep my finger crossed!

Well, for my journey, I will try to keep myself closer to nature and avoid being a typical tourist. I’m very much open to my trip. I don’t like to travel in planned schedule anyway. Once I arrive in Slovenia, all I would be keeping in mind is my flight back to Belgium from Venice Treviso on 3rd of Sep. So, if you know any interesting place that this "Nepali-Belgian" guy should see, then your advices are highly appreciated. One thing for sure, I wanna see real Slovenian people, eat Slovenian food drink Slovenian beers and visit rural part of the country so that I can proudly say I HAVE BEEN to Slovenia.

07 July 2008

Inspiration

Sometimes, we all have to feel
alone and frightened before
we can appreciate the life
that surrounds us.

Life changes as we grow,
and we must learn to accept this.
The more we learn, the more we grow.
Hurting, being scared,
feeling alone, and crying
are part of the learning process;
understanding our feelings
makes life challenging
and rewarding.
Going through difficult times
makes you who you are.

You have taken one of
the most significant steps
you will ever have to.
Enter each new day
telling yourself that
you deserve to smile.
Enter each new day believing
that you can make someone else smile inside,
because you are a beautiful person.
Your kind of beauty is inside you,
and it fills the world
with your presence.
People can feel that.
Be happy; your whole life
is ahead of you.
It is your life, your chance
to be who and what you want to be.

17 April 2008

Turn back

When time comes you find yourself in deep trouble
like a ship lost in the mid-sea during a storm
You want to cry and need a shoulder to lean on
Seem hopeless and could not move on...
Got no one around whom to count on.

Maybe you have totally forgotten me
Have given up on me for somebody
Think I am useless and nothing but a strange man
So you shun and make a mock on me.

You might be surprised when you turn your back
See me smile with open arms and extended hands
For unlike them whom you prefer to be with than me
I'll never give up...
Turn my back on you.

I'll be your candle
Offer you light so you may not stumble

11 February 2008

Years have passed

Years have Passed since leaving home
journeying, a traveller alone
I am walking, my friend! Walking
away from the beginning, toward an end unknown.
Years have passed.....

Every morning I set out to walk
and every evening I light the stars
when every day ends the same way
Why does it make me so afraid?
Years have passed.....

When, as I go, wherever I stay
feels like my house to me
if I were to retrace to my steps tomorrow
how would I know my home?
Years have passed.....


Don't let anyone steal your Dreams. Follow your heart, no matter what.